Yesterday a neighbor asked me as I was walking through the front doors if she and I could talk. She was having a rough time but so was I. I had to stop her and tell her that right at that moment wasn’t a good time but I could talk later, and then I just walked away. This morning we talked, and while I doubt … Continue reading Set Them Boundaries, They Might Make Your Relationships Stronger
Because it’s important to understand and to remind myself, that I am not alone. It’s so weird because I felt completely alone ten years ago, without a friend in the world. I was stuck in this idea that there was something wrong with me and then I saw a video the other day that basically said “Stop chasing the same guys as the cops,” and … Continue reading Man or Bear, Yeah We’re Still Having That Conversation
Okay, so this is weird. I actually do remember my why. I wanted to live. I wanted to outlive the rapists, pedophiles, and cult leaders, who said that my life was unworthy of being lived because, and only because, of the color of my skin. For years I equated my skin color with abuse, because everyone around me who was male, had a hard time … Continue reading In All Things You Do, Remember Your Why
They can look like anyone in the world. They can start off being the kindest, sweetest, most open, and wonderful people in the world. And then…on a dime, they switch, and everything and anything is your fault and they are completely innocent. Everything has a reason or an excuse, everyone is at fault but them and no one has any hurt feelings except for the … Continue reading Holy Shit, So That’s What a Narcissist Looks Like In The Wild
Thirty years in, and Janelle and Kody sound like they might be calling it quits, and that’s just the saddest truth to me. But a good portion of their problems is due to fan comments. The truth is that when you put your life out there for the world to see, whether you want them to or not, people are going to comment, and those … Continue reading Evolution Sometimes Means Goodbye
Loud Mouth Brown Girl 