COVID19, Dreams & Nightmares, featured, Personal, Written while Stoned

Write a story about Corona Virus, He Says: Essay for my Writer’s Workshop

At the beginning of 2020, I had plans. I was going to save every penny that I could so that I could put it into my business. Except I wasn't making any money because I'd also decided that the money that I'd spent in twenty-twenty was going to charity. I bought eight Loud Mouth Brown… Continue reading Write a story about Corona Virus, He Says: Essay for my Writer’s Workshop

advice, Herstory, Letters, Women, Written while Stoned

Triggers…Triggers…Triggers…

I've been doing interviews like crazy this week, about the podcast, and the website. About gender based violence, about my experience, and about the things that I have been through. It's been triggering, and it's been difficult, I mentioned that in my last post. It's been difficult remembering all the things that hurt me, and… Continue reading Triggers…Triggers…Triggers…

Abuse, advice

What Advice Do You Have For Other Survivors?

Omg. This was such a hard question during my interview on CJSF today, because there is so much that I want to say, but the first thing that I want to say is that it is absolutely not your fault. Abusers will try and in some cases, succeed in convincing you that it is your… Continue reading What Advice Do You Have For Other Survivors?

Abuse, advice, Written while Stoned

Life Is A Series Of Never Ending Tests

I am binge watching Lost Girl right now, not really in the right order, just whatever episodes happen to be on my DVR right now. Because I have been watching so many episodes back to back, I am starting to realize that during the entire series run, Bo has never had any "downtime". She's always… Continue reading Life Is A Series Of Never Ending Tests

Battles and Beefs, Conversation, Dreams & Nightmares, featured, Hard Truth, Letters, Letters from Big, Written while Stoned

She Asked Me Not To Have Black Children….

I just read the headline for this post here called "What If My Son Were Ahmaud?" On an earlier post by the same Author, Kaya, a woman commented that she hopes I don't bring Black children into this world, because of how hard it is for her as a mother of Black children of her… Continue reading She Asked Me Not To Have Black Children….