If It Matters To You, You’ll Get it Done…I Think, Maybe, Okay We’ll See…

I had a conversation the other day with the Small Business Owners of BC Facebook Group, and we were discussing motivation, drive, and the desire to get the work done. We all came to the conclusion after the discussion, that if you really want to do something, you’ll fucking do it. Because if you really want it, why wouldn’t you? Right? Yeah yeah, what if … Continue reading If It Matters To You, You’ll Get it Done…I Think, Maybe, Okay We’ll See…

Because She Can’t…I Will

I don’t have a friggen wellness board to tell me how I am feeling or break down my emotions for me. I figure it out on my own, and maybe that’s the more difficult route, but it’s the route that makes sense to my brain. Today is Bell Let’s Talk Day, and people all over the world use today to come out and share their … Continue reading Because She Can’t…I Will

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If You Can Read This…Why Are You Reading it for Free?

That’s a question I’ve been throwing around in my head for years. I want to be a writer, but I want to get paid to write, but the publishing industry is notoriously evil to writers and editors of color, so how can I do this by bypassing the traditional route? I created this blog to deal with my mental health and to prove that I … Continue reading If You Can Read This…Why Are You Reading it for Free?

Do You Know What “SURVIVOR” Really Means? It’s Not A Friggen Game Show – It’s A Warning Label

I’ve noticed a pattern, especially in the last several years. December always used to be the strongest most powerfully busy time of the year for me. Largely because we were always getting ready for Christmas Dinner at the mission – picture getting ready for a wedding, every year for eighteen years. On the exact same day every year, Christmas Day, hundreds of people – including … Continue reading Do You Know What “SURVIVOR” Really Means? It’s Not A Friggen Game Show – It’s A Warning Label

This is War and the Queen Ain’t Done Yet

Songs like this are often accused of glorifying war because apparently war only happens in far away countries with giant machines and bombs that destroy whole towns and villages. But what if I told you that right where you stand, you are in the middle of war all on your own? Against the patriarchy, against womanhood, for womanhood, for freedom, against freedom, against abortion, for … Continue reading This is War and the Queen Ain’t Done Yet