Literature, Meditation Writings, MentalHealth, Race, Racism, Random Thoughts, self advice, Women, writing, Written while Stoned

The Kind of Writer That You Want To Be…Is Not The Writer You Are Going To Become

When Marley K. started writing, like myself, she started by writing erotica. Like me, Marley wanted to express the sensuality and sexuality that comes with being a Black woman. She wanted to share with the world the idea that Black women enjoy sex in a variety of ways. So did I. I found that out… Continue reading The Kind of Writer That You Want To Be…Is Not The Writer You Are Going To Become

Abuse, advice, BudSistas, friendship, Herstory, Written while Stoned

I’m A Little Off Today

On days when I don't have to do podcast interviews, my focus is on providing content for this website, or for Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. Today I am not feeling so hot, I am definitely low energy, which saddens me, because yesterday to celebrate November 11th my Budsista's got together to do a "reset ceremony."… Continue reading I’m A Little Off Today

advice, Herstory, Letter to my Future Children, Letters, Letters from Big, Letters from Siddha, Written while Stoned

September 24th 2020, I’ve Found My Place In The World

There is so much for me to be grateful for this week, I am alive, I am healthy, mostly, I am happy, and I am secure in my home. I am comfortable. I am lucky. As I gaze out the window to my left, I can see the sky is a bright almost white gray,… Continue reading September 24th 2020, I’ve Found My Place In The World

advice, Herstory, Letters, Women, Women in Cannibus

Stop Letting Other People Invade Your Vision For Your Life

Years ago I had a wonderful friend named Pixie Jen who ran her own bookstore. I remember talking with her at the time about her worry the store was going to close. To be honest I suspected that she was right, it was in a terrible location, and it serviced a small clientele, and she… Continue reading Stop Letting Other People Invade Your Vision For Your Life

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Dear Devon…Stop Shaming Yourself For Needing Rest

I've been thinking a lot about what it means to be a "Content Creator", and by that I mean, a part of an industry that is designed around creating content for the general public to absorb. https://youtu.be/QNKpK_InQHQ This video inspired the hell out of me for years as a child, because I always wondered what… Continue reading Dear Devon…Stop Shaming Yourself For Needing Rest