Recovery Will Be The Most Uncomfortable Experience of Your Life

Preconceived notions, assumptions, and what you thought your reality was going to be will all change once you commit to joining a recovery program and I want you to be prepared for that. Specifically, this is for those with family members who are entering recovery. There's an excellent chance that you might not get back … Continue reading Recovery Will Be The Most Uncomfortable Experience of Your Life

I’m Scared To Move On To The Next Step

This post is dedicated to my Budsistas, my friends Jen, Anya, and Wendy, and to all the people who have allowed me to be a mess the last four years as I figure out where I am on my healing journey. Yesterday I got into a conversation about "what about me ism", and I confessed … Continue reading I’m Scared To Move On To The Next Step

Blessed Samhain…This Year I am Harvesting My Guilt and Setting It On Fire

I absolutely do not want anyone from my past, to be a part of my future. With a few key and very rare exceptions, I have kicked out everyone from my life, and the more that I think about it, the more that I realize it was absolutely the right decision. Recently an old friend … Continue reading Blessed Samhain…This Year I am Harvesting My Guilt and Setting It On Fire

Thank You For Your Patience

Devon J Hall breaks down the need for boundaries in this thought provoking piece about self reflection.

It’s like building a brick wall…one pebble at a time.

That's what healing from childhood sexual abuse and trauma, domestic abuse and trauma and PTSD is like. It feels like I am building a wall out of brick pebbles one at a time, and every time I get one side of the wall built another part starts to break down and I have to start … Continue reading It’s like building a brick wall…one pebble at a time.