This post is dedicated to my Budsistas, my friends Jen, Anya, and Wendy, and to all the people who have allowed me to be a mess the last four years as I figure out where I am on my healing journey. Yesterday I got into a conversation about “what about me ism”, and I confessed … More I’m Scared To Move On To The Next Step
I absolutely do not want anyone from my past, to be a part of my future. With a few key and very rare exceptions, I have kicked out everyone from my life, and the more that I think about it, the more that I realize it was absolutely the right decision. Recently an old friend … More Blessed Samhain…This Year I am Harvesting My Guilt and Setting It On Fire
Devon J Hall breaks down the need for boundaries in this thought provoking piece about self reflection. … More Thank You For Your Patience
That’s what healing from childhood sexual abuse and trauma, domestic abuse and trauma and PTSD is like. It feels like I am building a wall out of brick pebbles one at a time, and every time I get one side of the wall built another part starts to break down and I have to start … More It’s like building a brick wall…one pebble at a time.
When you finally decide that you are ready to unpack all the trauma and start making an honest effort to climb out of the closet, you are in fact making a commitment to healing the pain you’re experiencing. It’s not an easy journey and anyone who has had to heal from abuse will tell you … More Go Have The Fucking Conversation