So I have had some practice with this, and I am getting better at it every single day. I am not going to say that I am teaching YOU about how to create a network of stable equitable support around you, but I am putting down what I’ve learned so far, so that it’s on … More “We Were On A Break…” You Can Break with Family, but You Can’t Walk Away Forever
For a lot of families, the ideas of courtship, dating, marriage, and eventual childbearing experiences, are traditions that everyone is “supposed” to want, but in my case, I have an aunt, and a mother who taught me that they didn’t choose men who would devalue them, but instead chose their independence. Are they happy? That’s … More Find a Moment of Peace To Hold Onto When The Shit Hits The Fan (A Christmas Reminder)
In a hundred billion, trillion years, I never thought that I would ever ever, be the girl who tells the world that there are layers to this planet, and this existence, that I will never understand. “Never backward, always forward. Always.” -Luke Cage This quote is one that I’ve been repeating to myself for awhile … More The Truth of It All: A Letter to Krisya Ohana
When I was growing up in Calgary, I spent an abnormal time alone as a child. Stuck in between trying to be who other people thought I should be, and trying to make tiny inroads to being myself, no matter what I did I was never cool enough, never smart enough, never worthy of spending … More Finding Your Tribe Is Transformative
I swore I wouldn’t write a post about this holiday season because I am not a fan. In years past Christmas has always been a work holiday. Last year was the first year my mom had made Christmas dinner since I was fourteen, and that’s because every Christmas my family would gather at the Church … More It’s The Christmas Season
Loud Mouth Brown Girl 