If It Matters To You, You’ll Get it Done…I Think, Maybe, Okay We’ll See…

I had a conversation the other day with the Small Business Owners of BC Facebook Group, and we were discussing motivation, drive, and the desire to get the work done. We all came to the conclusion after the discussion, that if you really want to do something, you’ll fucking do it. Because if you really want it, why wouldn’t you? Right? Yeah yeah, what if … Continue reading If It Matters To You, You’ll Get it Done…I Think, Maybe, Okay We’ll See…

Because She Can’t…I Will

I don’t have a friggen wellness board to tell me how I am feeling or break down my emotions for me. I figure it out on my own, and maybe that’s the more difficult route, but it’s the route that makes sense to my brain. Today is Bell Let’s Talk Day, and people all over the world use today to come out and share their … Continue reading Because She Can’t…I Will

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If You Can Read This…Why Are You Reading it for Free?

That’s a question I’ve been throwing around in my head for years. I want to be a writer, but I want to get paid to write, but the publishing industry is notoriously evil to writers and editors of color, so how can I do this by bypassing the traditional route? I created this blog to deal with my mental health and to prove that I … Continue reading If You Can Read This…Why Are You Reading it for Free?

The 2022 #LoveLetterChallenge

The first time I saw this tweet by Ahmed Ali I laughed for about ten minutes. It’s hilarious because it’s so fucking true. I do not want to make lemonade anymore. Beyonce did that, beautifully, I don’t want to try and create something that will forever be synonymous with “Lemonade” because Beyonce DID IT! I want to create something new, and every single kind of … Continue reading The 2022 #LoveLetterChallenge

Do You Know What “SURVIVOR” Really Means? It’s Not A Friggen Game Show – It’s A Warning Label

I’ve noticed a pattern, especially in the last several years. December always used to be the strongest most powerfully busy time of the year for me. Largely because we were always getting ready for Christmas Dinner at the mission – picture getting ready for a wedding, every year for eighteen years. On the exact same day every year, Christmas Day, hundreds of people – including … Continue reading Do You Know What “SURVIVOR” Really Means? It’s Not A Friggen Game Show – It’s A Warning Label