Let’s talk about Gang Culture

I haven’t but I want to talk about the night that I was gang raped…because I think for that for me to understand, I have to really understand. When I was between the ages of 15-17 I was raped a lot, passed around by a group of pedophiles who called themselves the Adrenaline Mob. In […]

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An Open Letter to the City of Surrey

Have you ever seen Arrow? Yeah, that thing where he says “You have failed this city”, you are doing that right now by trying to close down recovery homes instead of trying to regulate them as you should. Here’s a list of what proper recovery homes should have been providing in return for minimum $500 […]

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This is what Love Looks Like

I feel like this might be a woman’s worst nightmare – I without shame, accused several men of rape, but in this case it was so we could trap the REAL people involved in my gang rape, without being considered “Rats”. Thankfully our years long plan worked, but it occurs to me, that someone I […]

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So weird thing happened…my Ohana wrote me letters

This happened, after Sunday’s Surrey Pride event which by the way was awesome, don’t believe me? Let me show you please.   The best part hands down was hearing people tell me (or not tell me) that they cried when they opened some of the love letters that “I” wrote. It was also fun not […]

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Brown Girl Artist Highlight: Notty Designs

So I don’t know about you but I almost never read comic books or watch television movies with Brown or Black girls, largely because I am ingrained to believe that Black women cannot be hero’s. As a child I grew up without Black girl role models that weren’t heavy into Hip Hop – it just […]

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Dear Siddha, I was raped and I need help

Yesterday while sitting on the train from Vancouver to Surrey, I received a letter, it was dropped in my lap in such a forceful way that it was obvious and hard to ignore….I warn you this letter might trigger some people. Dear Siddha,  I was raped. I am just realizing this as I am sitting […]

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Lets talk Masturbation….and Angels

This is, as a woman who is single, a topic I think about a lot. Largely because of the degree to which I have been abused, I think about how important this act of body, mind and soul love affects me. It has always bothered me, that women are supposed to be ashamed of our […]

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