The Hardness of the Soft, #WomensHistoryMonth

It's really hard being a girl. Can we stop and acknowledge that? I'm a girl, and although I'm trying my best to be seen as non-binary, 40 years on this earth has made it difficult for those who think they know me, to be able to see me as non-binary, so I reiterate, being a … Continue reading The Hardness of the Soft, #WomensHistoryMonth

One Day vs Day One

"Can you actually do anything you put your mind to?" vs "Do You Believe You Can Do Anything You Put Your Mind to?" It's so easy for people to tell you, me, and even themselves, that changing your mindset, will change everything. but what if you can't? What if you can't change your mindset because … Continue reading One Day vs Day One

To Go From Surviving To Thriving

This post is dedicated to my new friend and follower @SavvyWroteThat on Twitter. Long may you Reign. https://twitter.com/SavvyWroteThat/status/1476975237191421952 I posted this question today and my friend Savannah responded and honestly that's what 2021 was about for me. I was surviving, and in 2022 I want to thrive. I Need to dance my loves, I need … Continue reading To Go From Surviving To Thriving

Little Boys And Girls Who Learn To Fight Back, Are The Most Terrifying Creatures On This Planet

In grade two or three, three I think, we had to write the every few year dumbass exam that told the province how smart, stupid, or in the middle they thought we were according to standards that our brains shouldn't really have been able to understand. In one of the sections we had to write … Continue reading Little Boys And Girls Who Learn To Fight Back, Are The Most Terrifying Creatures On This Planet

Another Fatal Shooting in #SurreyBC, Without An End In Sight

Another fatal shooting, another young man murdered in cold blood while neighbors and witnesses watch in horror. It feels like this is a never ending problem, and I am curious as to how long we can keep pretending that we don't have a gun problem in this town, and nothing seems to get done about … Continue reading Another Fatal Shooting in #SurreyBC, Without An End In Sight