• No, “Straight Sobriety,” Isn’t For Everyone

    Anyone who knew me ten years ago would wonder if I had lost my mind, knowing that today I now write about smoking cannabis. The truth is, yes, yes I did lose my mind. That’s why I smoke cannabis, because it helps me remember who I want to be. It took me decades to find

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  • Dear White Women…Shut. The. Fuck. Up.

    Black women have been talking, and collectively, we’re tired of y’all and you know who you are. Or maybe you don’t and that’s the fucking problem. I wrote this over a year ago, because I truly felt that Black women when speaking, were being deliberately ignored. Not unheard, ignored, on purpose. “Let me preface this

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  • To….Something or other

    To….Something or other

    New things are happening. Come check out the new strings of our little web

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  • Happy Halloween, Blessed Samhain, Sweet Harvest To You & Yours

    We made it! In 2 days it will be one year since I broke my ankle, and a year later…I’m still occasionally walking with a limp. That’s okay! I mind but I don’t. Being disabled isn’t the worst thing in the world. I could be a Karen! Perish the thought. I am not “Disabled” in

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  • Building Community: The Role of Digital Mutual Aid

    #MutualAid may not be for everyone, but for those of us it helps, some of us can say our worlds have been changed by the grace of those who could and did help when needed.

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  • The Language of Trauma Evolves As You Begin To Heal

    When I was a kid, I distinctly remember driving through Calgary with mummalove, my younger brother, and my mom’s boyfriend. I remember thinking “I want out.” “Can I go to boarding school…in England?” I asked out loud as we were driving, he laughed, mom said absolutely not, and that was the end of the conversation.

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  • Why Aren’t You Famous?

    Why Aren’t You Famous?

    I’m doing the “Brave” thing, and showing a photo of me with missing teeth, because I’m not famous, so I can get away with such shenanigans.

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  • Hi Surrey BC,

    Hi Surrey BC,

    This is a letter to the City of #SurreyBC, a beautiful, vibrant city just outside of New West that has all the potential in the world. I wish everyone could see my hometown the way that I do.

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  • Anger, Rage, And Reminders: I Changed Too

    Yesterday I wrote about my crippling inability to make decisions with ease or Decision Paralysis, and today I realize as I look around at the people in my life, no one I know struggles with this. And I am curious as to how the fuck that happened. But then in the writing of this essay,

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  • This Might Anger You, But If You Hear Me Out…

    You’ll understand that what I am about to say is in your best interest. Jesus did not write The Ten Commandments. He did not write The Holy Bible, either. Moses wrote the fucking commandments, after he smashed the set that God “himself” wrote, he RE-WROTE the commandments IN HIS words. The Bible was written by

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  • Discovering Your Majickal Identity: Healers, Protectors, and More

    Each of us has a base archetype that when understood can help us discover untold amounts of potential we didn’t know we had access to otherwise

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  • Thank You to My Supportive Readers: A Heartfelt Message

    In all my years of writing on this site, I don’t think I’ve ever stopped to thank genuinely the volume of people who have come by to visit, share comments and thoughts, or just to see what I am up to. So I thought today I would. First off, I want to showcase all the

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