• Stop apologizing for healing your way

    The days of saying I am sorry are long over, because I took a look at my life and I realized just how hard I had to fight to save my life – granted I had a lot of help, but prior to having help I was alone. I was in complete and utter enemy…

  • A Succulent Thank You To Those Who Refuse to Remain Silent

    It irks me that Meghan McCain went on and on about how some people do not have the platform she does, and there for, in her humble opinion, should not have to come forward and voice their opinions about Trump, because they are private citizens. Check your privilege at the door, because largely I have…

  • I am over the expectation that I should expect more.

    I am so tired of the women in my life taking care of damaged men. I used to do this habitually, so much so that on several occasions, it could have cost me everything, including my life. As it was, a few years worth of psych bills, some humiliation and I’ll be okay. It’s not…

  • Send her back…mother fucker you go back, to where you came from…DO YOU EVEN KNOW?

    Okay so…I don’t understand Christianity anymore, especially when it’s been used to support White Supremacy, because…wow some of you white people are fucking stupid. The stupidest phrase in the English Language is “Go back to where you came from” followed only by “send her back”. Everything we have, including the technology we use, the cars…

  • Dear Nazi’s, I see you

    We are living in both a dangerous and fascinating time in history. What happens in the next few years is most certainly going to define our time in history for the next several generations, and it’s strange to see how much damage we are causing along the way. I’ve said it before and I will…

  • An Open Letter to the City of Surrey

    Have you ever seen Arrow? Yeah, that thing where he says “You have failed this city”, you are doing that right now by trying to close down recovery homes instead of trying to regulate them as you should. Here’s a list of what proper recovery homes should have been providing in return for minimum $500…

  • So weird thing happened…my Ohana wrote me letters

    This happened, after Sunday’s Surrey Pride event which by the way was awesome, don’t believe me? Let me show you please.   The best part hands down was hearing people tell me (or not tell me) that they cried when they opened some of the love letters that “I” wrote. It was also fun not…

  • Brown Girl Artist Highlight: Notty Designs

    So I don’t know about you but I almost never read comic books or watch television movies with Brown or Black girls, largely because I am ingrained to believe that Black women cannot be hero’s. As a child I grew up without Black girl role models that weren’t heavy into Hip Hop – it just…

  • Dear Siddha, I was raped and I need help

    Yesterday while sitting on the train from Vancouver to Surrey, I received a letter, it was dropped in my lap in such a forceful way that it was obvious and hard to ignore….I warn you this letter might trigger some people. Dear Siddha,  I was raped. I am just realizing this as I am sitting…

  • Lets talk Masturbation….and Angels

    This is, as a woman who is single, a topic I think about a lot. Largely because of the degree to which I have been abused, I think about how important this act of body, mind and soul love affects me. It has always bothered me, that women are supposed to be ashamed of our…

  • Letter to Siddha

    The following letter came in recently, we have no idea what the fuck this person is talking about, but it was curious enough to post it. Siddha Lee, So funny story.  Turns out that that whole Sunnydale being the center of the Universe thing wasn’t entirely wrong. Turns out it’s one of several Hell Mouth’s…

  • Take a breath and whisper fuck it

    There’s a fairly good chance this post doesn’t belong here, but it just struck me, how often our boundaries are pushed, and how amazingly lucky it is that so many of us do not commit murder. And before you rant and rave at me at what a senseless thing that is to say, the truth…