• Message to Women

      @DearYouFromWe

  • About This Book….

    My youngest self has been through a lot. At thirteen I wanted to be a model, I had plans of joining Tyra Banks on the cat walk and being celebrated as the next great Mulatto Creole future model of the world. I had visions of Paris and Milan, California and of course my beloved Boston,…

  • Every Time You Hit A Woman…

    In yesterday’s post I spoke a lot about how “this could happen here, and oh look, a shooting,” but as I sit here watching America’s Got Talent, I am thinking about my thoughts today and I am realizing just how much work I have to do to heal. It’s not that I am still in…

  • Welcome to Surrey, BC

    Another death in Surrey today. Another fear that all out war is on the way. I woke and missed an appointment that I very much wanted to attend for personal reasons, and then as often as possible, I wrote some new love letters to hand out in a few weeks. Today is the day that…

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  • The Myth of Pandora

    From her is the race of women and female kind: of her is the deadly race and tribe of women who live amongst mortal men to their great trouble, no helpmates in hateful poverty, but only in wealth. He reaches deadly old age without anyone to tend his years, and though he at least has…

  • I’m not Sensitive to Others, and I am totally okay with that.

    Some people are genuinely sensitive to the idea that they might be a racist, so rather than out rightly admit that their behavior is racist, they will instead hide behind a thousand reasons as to why their behavior is not racist. Tiny lies and behavioral changes, inconsideration and outright ignorance of the way you feel…

  • Black Girl’s Write Too

    This is a group I joined on Facebook, and it occured to me just thinking about reaching out to some of these amazing women, that yes…yes we do write too. Most of my Twitter “career”, in promoting my brand, I’ve been surrounded by very proud, very successful, very talented and powerful White writers…not on purpose,…

  • Nature Creates Balance Where There Is Imbalance

    What Robert Kelly did to children is nothing short of the absolute worst kind of evil, “men” like him and Einstein did to these young girls is nothing short of evil. There is no other singular word that describes what those women went through. It is this kind of evil that women experience every single…

  • Stop apologizing for healing your way

    The days of saying I am sorry are long over, because I took a look at my life and I realized just how hard I had to fight to save my life – granted I had a lot of help, but prior to having help I was alone. I was in complete and utter enemy…

  • A Succulent Thank You To Those Who Refuse to Remain Silent

    It irks me that Meghan McCain went on and on about how some people do not have the platform she does, and there for, in her humble opinion, should not have to come forward and voice their opinions about Trump, because they are private citizens. Check your privilege at the door, because largely I have…

  • I am over the expectation that I should expect more.

    I am so tired of the women in my life taking care of damaged men. I used to do this habitually, so much so that on several occasions, it could have cost me everything, including my life. As it was, a few years worth of psych bills, some humiliation and I’ll be okay. It’s not…