• Stop Saying Black Women, Women, Are Going To Save The Fucking World…Unless You’re Going To Pay Your Superheros

    Literally just fucking stop it. I mean this genuinely, don’t ever say this again. Yes we’re going to save the fucking world, but we shouldn’t have to. If the world were what it should be, LBGTQ2+ people wouldn’t have to have their human rights argued in a court of law. Minimum wage would be $25.00…

  • What Advice Do You Have For Other Survivors?

    Omg. This was such a hard question during my interview on CJSF today, because there is so much that I want to say, but the first thing that I want to say is that it is absolutely not your fault. Abusers will try and in some cases, succeed in convincing you that it is your…

  • I Am Not In The Mood For Your Shit Today

    Each of us deals with trauma differently. Some of us hold onto it, and manage to make a life out of the abuse that we have experienced without ever having to share our stories. Some of us make a life for ourselves that is filled with notable accomplishments and achievements that encourage us to keep…

  • I Want To Throw Myself Into Helping Others But I Have To Help Myself First

    I am so tired. Tomorrow morning at 10:15 PST I will be on CJSF FM Radio talking about Uncomfortable, and while I am excited, I am exhausted, because last night I was having dreams about myself and my future. I was thinking about all the things that I have to make sure I talk about,…

  • You Are Not Going To Find Your Perfect Love In A Strip Club. I Promise You. Find Yourself First.

    Does he even know your name? Or does he have a nickname for you that no one else in the world calls you because they all know your fucking name? Yeah, he doesn’t love you. Does he have any interest in who you are as a person, or does he use pretending to get to…

  • Black Women And Mental Health, I Am So Excited

    When I was about eleven years old, I had this vision of myself, but in like a past life. I could hear bombs going off in the distance, and I could see a Black woman in a tan colored dress sitting at a typewriter trying to get the story out. That vision convinced me that…

  • I’m So Tired Of People Saying Get Over It, Because It’s Really Good Advice

    I had a friend who once told me to “get over it”, to “get over” whatever it was that was holding me back from being the person I was always meant to be. At first I really liked it, and I tried it, I tried to just start ignoring what happened to me and I…

  • How To Help Survivors by Request

    So I asked peoples on Twitter what I should write about, and my friend Ben asked me to write a post about how to help survivors heal. The truth is initially there is absolutely nothing you can do. There is a lot of work that has to get done for us to be able to…

  • Comfortably Uncomfortable Conversations: The Devon J Hall #Podcast

    So as you may or may not know, I used to have a hobby podcast, called Radio Free Voice. I loved it because I could play music and talk about all the things that I wasn’t talking about before. I spent a lot of time talking about my time with Anonymous and how I see…

  • When It’s Time To Open The Doors: How Do You Know When It’s Time To Fall In Love?

    I’ve been thinking about this, and I wrote a thread about it on Twitter, but I wanted to expand on these ideas. When it’s time to open the door to love, how do you know that you’ll survive it if things go bad? How do you know that you’re ready? How do you know and…

  • KAMALA HARRIS an Official Endorsement From The Loud Mouth Brown Girl

    Put aside her record. Ignore the fuck out of it for just one moment, because there are little girls all over the world who don’t know about her record, who are seeing someone like themselves, who look like them, rising to the top. The Glass Ceiling is officially cracked. It’s not shattered, it’s not broken,…

  • #OnlyFans…And The Downside To Being A Powerhouse Woman (Or Man)

    I’ve been thinking about Only Fans, and personally I think it’s a great idea. It’s a private platform that puts the power in the hands of the people who control the content. I’ve been thinking about Only Fans, and personally I think it’s a great idea. It’s a private platform that puts the power in…