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Gang Girl Realities
Before I started this website, my tattoo artist, friend, and honestly, mental health professional, Bill Gaspari asked me when I was going to start my anti-rape website. I don’t know how much he knew about what happened to me, but interestingly he’s a huge part of the story of what happened to me, even though…
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Disconnected Roots, Create Disconnected Humans
Once upon a time, we were a tribal people. We lived together, worked together, and worshipped together, but the more that people learned they could use the legend of that which we could no longer see, to twist and control the lives of those around them, then all bets were off. The idea of God…
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Loud Mouth Brown Girl: Question Time
So in this video, I’ve written down a bunch of questions I hear in my head, or get asked by people, and I thought I would answer them while chilling to music and talking to myself. Enjoy.
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“We Were On A Break…” You Can Break with Family, but You Can’t Walk Away Forever
So I have had some practice with this, and I am getting better at it every single day. I am not going to say that I am teaching YOU about how to create a network of stable equitable support around you, but I am putting down what I’ve learned so far, so that it’s on…
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New Look: 2022 Here We Go* Includes a special Video Thank You!!!
Okay, we’re ready for Loud Mouth Brown Girl’s next incarnation. I am so excited for the new year. I have plans and goals and dreams and each and every one of them is completely obtainable. Which is rare for me, as many of you can imagine for yourselves. It’s so weird when things start to…
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Sometimes All That Is Needed…Is A Well Placed Orgasm
“We have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation.”― Lily Tomlin I struggle with reading about sex in books written by other authors, and unlike my much, much, younger self, I struggle with writing about sex. I used to write about all kinds of sex, mostly Dom-based, mostly incestuous…
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Tuesday Is Not As Fat As Promised
Tuesday: The Day of War Tuesday gets its name from the Anglo-Saxon god of war Tiu, also known as Tyr to the Vikings. The Romans named their third day of the week after their god of war, Mars. That is why romantic languages like Spanish, French, and Italian all have similar names for Tuesday: Martes,…
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Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Season’s Greetings
Okay seriously do you still care about this? Because it contributed to so much drama when I was a kid. “Oh Dear God, no more Merry Christmas? It’s Blessed Yule now?” Bitch please, it was Blessed Yule for close to five thousand years before Christmas just “popped up,” so like, could we not? This idea…
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Find a Moment of Peace To Hold Onto When The Shit Hits The Fan (A Christmas Reminder)
For a lot of families, the ideas of courtship, dating, marriage, and eventual childbearing experiences, are traditions that everyone is “supposed” to want, but in my case, I have an aunt, and a mother who taught me that they didn’t choose men who would devalue them, but instead chose their independence. Are they happy? That’s…
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Connect and Collaberate: Be The Beautiful You That You Can Be, So I Can Be The Beautiful Ugly I Need To Be…Please
This is a live stream even that takes place each Wednesday, in one of the many Facebook groups I joined. I joined the groups because of the pandemic, and because each of them is a group that is focused on things I am interested in. Whether it’s being Black in Vancouver, or interested in podcasting…
