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The Devil is a Woman and she’s not done yet.
It’s so funny, because I am Brown, but I am not “Indian’ Brown, and those are two different kinds of brown. I’m English, Irish, Scottish, Jamaican and Gypsy, I don’t have the rich history and culture in one family strain. Our family is made up of many different cultures, where as when you are Indian,…
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I kind of forgot what kind of Witch I am
When ever you tell anyone you’re a Witch, the first question is always “are you a good Witch or a bad Witch?” which is the dumbest fucking question, because that’s like asking what kind of Christian someone is, or what kind of Buddhist. “Are you a fucking asshole?” would be a much more appropriate question.…
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If I can’t call you Whitey, You can’t Use the N Word
After I was raped, at sixteen – one of many times, I might add – I went to a friend for support. Knocking on the door I expected to be allowed to see her, only to be told that I was no longer allowed to see her. As I was walking down the steps, I…
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I played with my cunt again…
I don’t do this often, any more, if at all because it feels wrong after being sexually abused. It was something I just felt I had to do because I was tired of hearing the voices of pain and suffering from my past self, which is something I hear often whenever I have an episode.…
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Love The Skin That You Are In
I love this. With my heart and my soul.
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Now I get it
There is a responsibility that comes with being abused, and reporting that abuse to any kind of authority figure. I learned this yesterday when I was talking about the things I have been through, with a counselor whose helping me go through the process of applying for counselling. I learned that, statistically speaking I should…
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#AfterAbuseChat Starting November 7th 2019
I’m excited to announce a brand new chat that revolves around healing from Sexual Abuse and Trauma. I am excited because I reached out to my sister loud girl Heather, who like me understands the pain of gang rape and she has agreed to support me in helping to host these weekly chats. I’m also…
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When was the last time you talked about it?
This post is dedicated to @strikeoutss and @GillianMKendall for inspiring me to ask the question “How are you doing?, When was the last time you talked about it?” I just ran into a neighbor and by coincidence, I happened to ask about her grandson and his wheelchair. She told me the story and while I…
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Is it really that unusual?
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking, and promoting and planning a new chat with my friend Heather that we’re calling #AfterAbuseChat. I’ve been thinking about all of the things that come with healing, in general not just from abuse. It occurred to me, that when you break a bone it takes time to heal.…
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To the girls in the hood
You’re not a Thug’s bitch. You are not less because you have a vagina. Please stop hiding his dope in your fucking bra’s. Drugs don’t belong there, neither do his hands while all his friends watch. You matter more than how much time he will get if he’s caught with his drugs because he’s a…
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Can we get our civility back without going backwards?
So Canadian Leader Jagmeet Singh says that Donald Trump is largely to blame for the xenophobia that we’re seeing today in our country and I wonder….will a new President have that much affect on how we treat each other? We used to be known as the nice country, and every time I’d hear an American,…
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The stuff Survivors need to hear: Get angry, you’re allowed.
The following Twitter thread was posted by my friend, and all around Healing Guru Sarah Garlits. Lately I have been feeling more empathy for my rapists than myself, which has pushed me into feeling a sense of complete loss of self. A place of utter depression, I know that I “CAN” get angry I just…
Loud Mouth Brown Girl 
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