It’s hard to imagine that anyone could be jealous of me, and yet throughout my life it’s a feeling I’ve experienced a lot. Let’s be honest, I am fucking beautiful. I say this even with all my insecurities and anxieties about my looks. I am still a fucking […]
In my last post I talked about the kinds of sex that I used to like, and in some cases still do. In this post I need to talk about why it’s important to talk about sex after you’ve been abused. This isn’t an easy topic for most […]
Every time I deliver a package of love letters to a new place, I have to explain why I write them. It usually starts with…”awhile ago I was gang raped…it’s my way of undoing some of the damage.” I am not sure the letters are having the intended […]
This post is dedicated to @WordsBySC who sent this beautiful tweet as I was writing this post. And @pinklady_ktown who taught me how to find a new version of my dance/voice/song. For months now I’ve been struggling to tell the story of Siddha Lee Saint James, the fictional character that […]
The days of saying I am sorry are long over, because I took a look at my life and I realized just how hard I had to fight to save my life – granted I had a lot of help, but prior to having help I was alone. […]
