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Coming Out Of The Closet

It's no secret that I am bisexual, but this is the first time I've written about it on my blog. Largely because it's been nice to sail under the radar all these years, it's been nice to say "yup I fight for you, I respect your right to be LGBTQ" without having to admit that… Continue reading Coming Out Of The Closet

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I’m Just A Stoner With A Keyboard

It feels arrogant to call myself a Teacher, but that's a word other people have used. I don't know if it's true, because I don't really feel like I am "teaching" anything important. All I am doing is sharing my experience, maybe that's enough, I'm not sure, the point is that I am no Guru.… Continue reading I’m Just A Stoner With A Keyboard

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Whose Voice Is More Important?

I think I am trying to practice the art of telling my truth in different voices, in other words, "character creation." It's hard when you're creating characters to ensure that they all have a different tone, a different vibration so that the story doesn't become stagnant. And I think that this is is what I… Continue reading Whose Voice Is More Important?

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Sex After Abuse Takes More Work

It's a shift in the way we are as human beings. Prior to being abused we were open with who we were. We were freer, maybe we wore dresses or shorts. Maybe we felt comfortable in our sexuality and our sensuality. After abuse we become something different, a hybrid version of ourselves, somewhat kind of… Continue reading Sex After Abuse Takes More Work

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Get Out Of My Way

I grew up in a house where telling a woman what to eat would get you dead.— The Other Jane (@OrphanageRules) May 3, 2020 WARNING: THIS POST MAY TRIGGER SOME PEOPLE DUE TO THIS BEING ABOUT RAPE AND SEXUAL ABUSE. PLEASE READ WITH ALL THE CAUTIONS. I did not grow up in such a house.… Continue reading Get Out Of My Way