Mental Health: Let’s Talk About It

With Bell Let's Talk coming up in a couple of weeks, and Survivor's Connection coming up just after that, I thought now would be a good time to discuss how to discuss the fact that you or someone you love may have mental health issues. The first thing that is important to understand is that … Continue reading Mental Health: Let’s Talk About It

Why More and More Folks Are Choosing To Remain Single In Their 30’s

Each of us women I mean have a resounding, resonating connection to our past. We are keenly aware of where we come from - other women. And even if our existence started in a lab, even if we were born from science, we still come from the women that come before us. Physically, emotionally, and … Continue reading Why More and More Folks Are Choosing To Remain Single In Their 30’s

781 Blog Posts

It seems strange to be celebrating such an odd number of blog posts. I mean it's not 1000, it's not 500....it's Seven Hundred and Eighty-One. The WORLD was such a DIFFERENT place when I was GROWING up. Now I'm GROWN, and I don't KNOW where I FIT. I'm ONE in EIGHT billion...All of us are … Continue reading 781 Blog Posts

Yeah, It Does, Get Better….I’ve Seen It

“Punishments include such things as flashbacks, flooding of unbearable emotions, painful body memories, flooding of memories in which the survivor perpetrated against others, self-harm, and suicide attempts.”― Alison Miller, Healing the Unimaginable: Treating Ritual Abuse and Mind Control For the last month I've been listening to the sounds of my internal "you're a woman it's time to … Continue reading Yeah, It Does, Get Better….I’ve Seen It

Sometimes All That Is Needed…Is A Well Placed Orgasm

“We have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation.”― Lily Tomlin I struggle with reading about sex in books written by other authors, and unlike my much, much, younger self, I struggle with writing about sex. I used to write about all kinds of sex, mostly Dom-based, mostly incestuous … Continue reading Sometimes All That Is Needed…Is A Well Placed Orgasm