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I Need The Work
It’s hard for people to understand just how much work I put into this blog. I am working almost ten to twelve hours a day curating and creating content and most of that content is provided to you all for free. LT says that I need to monetize the website, but the thing is that…
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Accountability
So I fucked up recently, and I called someone a slur – not a racial slur, but a slur none the less. I admitted to it on Twitter, but it got me to thinking about the privilege that I have that others do not. I realized as I was watching Madam Secretary, that there are…
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Revels…and Kitties
I know that I should be preparing for a big launch party for my book, but with COVID cases rising in the USA, I am choosing to not bother with a launch party until my book is actually published, and I might even put it off a little more. I’m not so big on being…
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Religion Is The Weapon of Colonizers
For centuries religion has been used as a weapon against marginalized cultures to convince them to give up their freedom. It’s something that I am only beginning to understand myself. Having been sexually abused by a Priest myself, I know what it feels like to be genuinely afraid of God. Largely because I was convinced…
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Dear Karen, I See Right Through You
This post has been completely altered from it’s original version. Dear Karen, You are a selfish, narcissistic, terrible and awful human being who doesn’t really understand the point of humanity. Or you are secretly a demon sent here to destroy us. Those are your options, at least one of them ends with you going to…
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Black Girl Majick, Magic, Magik
However you spell it, there is something special and unquantifiable about the relationship Black women have with each other. There is no need to discuss what we’ve been through, because with one look at each other…we fucking know. We see each other’s struggle the way that no one else can, in ways no one else…
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It’s Not Always So Easy
Last night was rough…and when I say rough, I mean it was so rough that I heard a little voice whisper “I want to kill myself”, it wasn’t my voice, it was that dark traveller that goes from one person to the next person infecting them with darkness, fear, shame, anxiety and depression. Last night…
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My Family
I have family all over the world, some I haven’t even met yet, others whose names I don’t even know. We are split between space and time, each trying to get from one day to the next, each finding our place in the world. Each learning about each other, each of us trying to discover…
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Technically, I Am Still On Hiatus, I’m Just Writing About It
Okay, I think I might have a genuine problem here, I think I might be a work a fucking holic, because technically speaking I should be working on “the book” but the thing is that the book has now been sent to a friend who is going to read it and think of something perfectly…
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I’m Taking A Break
Right now life is a bit crazy, because and I can’t believe I am about to say this (again) but I am writing a book. It’s a book of Essays, about fifty of them or so, I think at least that many. For the last few days I’ve been so focused on that that I…
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Emotional Existential Insanity Is A Life Saver
When you actually stop to comprehend everything you’ve been through the way I have been doing, you develop a thick outter shell against the darkness and the voices in your head that tell you that you don’t deserve to be happy. That doesn’t mean that the days are always easy, that life is fucking happy…
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How Did You Find Success?
I worked twelve hour days, even when I didn’t feel like working twelve hour fucking days. I refused to give up on myself and I believed I was more successful than I was, because I saw the potential for what could be. – Devon J Hall That’s exactly what I am going to say when…
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