Dear Mental Health Professionals: Please Stop Making Me Do The Hard Work For YOU, It’s Time For Us To Learn To Work TOGETHER. #TriggerWarning

For those of us who seek help from mental health “professionals,” it can be incredibly difficult to deal with our own emotions, and then have to explain those emotions to those who call themselves professionals, AND THEEEEN, make our mental health professionals feel comfortable around our emotional spectrums and waves. When we go to seek … More Dear Mental Health Professionals: Please Stop Making Me Do The Hard Work For YOU, It’s Time For Us To Learn To Work TOGETHER. #TriggerWarning

Be Careful What You Wish For: “I Want To Be A Writer When I Grow Up” Hah. Hah. Ha…ha.

Okay so I’ve been writing a lot about trauma lately, and that’s been really stressful for me to write about, so today on Tuesday June 13th, I want to do something different, because I’ve recently discovered that I am actually quite bored with trauma. Yeah I said that shit, and I said it because I … More Be Careful What You Wish For: “I Want To Be A Writer When I Grow Up” Hah. Hah. Ha…ha.

Dear (White) Men, I am Not Now, I Have Never Been, And I Will Never Be, Your Property

WARNING: This post contains conversations about slavery, abuse, rape, torture, and trauma. Please practice self care when reading this post. 400 years ago, white men and women trapesed across the seven seas on giant shipping boats, that they then filled with the human bodies of Black men, women, and children. They forced those bodies to … More Dear (White) Men, I am Not Now, I Have Never Been, And I Will Never Be, Your Property

The Kind of Writer That You Want To Be…Is Not The Writer You Are Going To Become

When Marley K. started writing, like myself, she started by writing erotica. Like me, Marley wanted to express the sensuality and sexuality that comes with being a Black woman. She wanted to share with the world the idea that Black women enjoy sex in a variety of ways. So did I. I found that out … More The Kind of Writer That You Want To Be…Is Not The Writer You Are Going To Become