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“They Get What They Deserve,” Why Victims of Gang Culture Do Not Report Gangs in #SurreyBC And Why They Absolutely Should

TRIGGER WARNING: This article goes into detail about gang rape, torture, sexual abuse, and trauma. Please be warned it will be difficult to read. The federal government has given $200,000 to BC's Crime Stoppers, in order to help convince people to report about the recent gang activity happening around the province, and I am telling… Continue reading “They Get What They Deserve,” Why Victims of Gang Culture Do Not Report Gangs in #SurreyBC And Why They Absolutely Should

Abuse, addiction, advice, featured, Herstory, Trigger Warning, Women

A Little Like Me

I am watching Elementary on Amazon Prime right now. It is without a doubt my current favorite show. I've seen every single episode a few times, and yet I am re-watching it the way that I re-watched WandaVision. In this show there is a character called Kitty, who like me was taken, tortured, and raped… Continue reading A Little Like Me

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Accidently On Purposely Hurting Yourself, Is Only Going To Hurt Everyone Around You

*********** PLEASE BE WARNED THIS POST TALKS ABOUT SELF HARM. IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW MAY BE TRIGGERED BY THIS POST PLEASE DO NOT READ. ********* Self harm is so difficult to talk about. It's one of those harmful shameful things that we don't discuss, because we're afraid of how people are going to… Continue reading Accidently On Purposely Hurting Yourself, Is Only Going To Hurt Everyone Around You

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I Don’t Ever Want To Hear A Man Ask A Woman Why She’s Afraid of Him…Ever…Again

I am scared. Every single day. Years ago a young woman who had been in love with a gangster that is quite famous in my hometown, died via overdose in a hotel room, while the love of her life sat in prison for a crime he apparently committed. A heinous crime, in which six people… Continue reading I Don’t Ever Want To Hear A Man Ask A Woman Why She’s Afraid of Him…Ever…Again

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This is My Survivor Journey Part Two: Go Ahead And Call Out Your Own Name When You Masturbate

Part one of this post can be found at And Another Thing... When I first started masturbating again, I realized that the orgasm was the only time in my entire life when I was taking care of what "I" needed, without caring about what other people needed. I kept hearing this voice in my head… Continue reading This is My Survivor Journey Part Two: Go Ahead And Call Out Your Own Name When You Masturbate