featured, Hard Truth, Written while Stoned

Self Sabotage Is Totally A Thing I Have Got To Work On

I've been thinking about this a lot lately, because my statistics have been going up. I am getting tons of brand new views on the website every day, even when I don't post though I do get considerably less views when there isn't "brand new" content on my site. Last month my statistics were soaring,… Continue reading Self Sabotage Is Totally A Thing I Have Got To Work On

Abuse, advice, Random Thoughts

Find Ways To Let It Out, I Know It Hurts…But It Does Get Beautiful…If You’re Willing To Fight

https://twitter.com/DevonJHall/status/1316998266496581633 Recently via Twitter, I posted this tweet, and someone responded with "no wonder I don't feel safe sharing my story." Oh my loves. I am so sorry. I won't take it down and I won't ever deny that I said it. I've lost more than one friend to suicide throughout my life, and it… Continue reading Find Ways To Let It Out, I Know It Hurts…But It Does Get Beautiful…If You’re Willing To Fight

Abuse, advice

What Advice Do You Have For Other Survivors?

Omg. This was such a hard question during my interview on CJSF today, because there is so much that I want to say, but the first thing that I want to say is that it is absolutely not your fault. Abusers will try and in some cases, succeed in convincing you that it is your… Continue reading What Advice Do You Have For Other Survivors?

Abuse, advice, Written while Stoned

You Are Not Going To Find Your Perfect Love In A Strip Club. I Promise You. Find Yourself First.

Does he even know your name? Or does he have a nickname for you that no one else in the world calls you because they all know your fucking name? Yeah, he doesn't love you. Does he have any interest in who you are as a person, or does he use pretending to get to… Continue reading You Are Not Going To Find Your Perfect Love In A Strip Club. I Promise You. Find Yourself First.

advice, Uncomfortable, Women, Written while Stoned

No Sacrifice No Victory

https://twitter.com/agnesbookbinder/status/1291909192370909185 You know that scene in Avengers: Age of Ultron, when Hawkeye tells the Scarlette Witch that the moment she steps out that door she's an avenger? That's such a great moment, because he's telling her she has a choice. She can remain where she is and hope her brother can save her, or she… Continue reading No Sacrifice No Victory