I live in Vancouver right now. This is not by choice it's by necessity, there's nowhere else for me to go, so here I am. I am wondering if I have the right to comment on what is happening in Vancouver, because I haven't lived here long enough to earn my stripes, and yet nonetheless … Continue reading #Vancouver Politicians Are Big Babies
She Asked Me Not To Have Black Children….
I just read the headline for this post here called "What If My Son Were Ahmaud?" On an earlier post by the same Author, Kaya, a woman commented that she hopes I don't bring Black children into this world, because of how hard it is for her as a mother of Black children of her … Continue reading She Asked Me Not To Have Black Children….
Go Have The Fucking Conversation
When you finally decide that you are ready to unpack all the trauma and start making an honest effort to climb out of the closet, you are in fact making a commitment to healing the pain you're experiencing. It's not an easy journey and anyone who has had to heal from abuse will tell you … Continue reading Go Have The Fucking Conversation
Jealousy Can Go Fuck Itself
It's hard to imagine that anyone could be jealous of me, and yet throughout my life it's a feeling I've experienced a lot. Let's be honest, I am fucking beautiful. I say this even with all my insecurities and anxieties about my looks. I am still a fucking hottie, and I say that knowing that … Continue reading Jealousy Can Go Fuck Itself
I will never stop talking about sex
In my last post I talked about the kinds of sex that I used to like, and in some cases still do. In this post I need to talk about why it's important to talk about sex after you've been abused. This isn't an easy topic for most people, but especially those of us who … Continue reading I will never stop talking about sex