When I was about five years old, I met a baby, and I promised that baby I would love him for the rest of my life no matter what. As it turns out that baby grew into a man, who ended up being one of my rapist in […]
For many Black women, life is about getting up every day, taking care of children and partners and family members, going to work and taking care of employees or coworkers, going home and making dinner and taking care of family again, then going to bed to wake up […]
Someone who once very much looked like Michelle Obama said that to me, in reference to the words from the great former First Lady of the United States of America. I will never forget it, or where I was – I don’t know what I was wearing, but […]
I am so tired of having to explain that shit triggers me. I don’t want to watch certain television shows because I know there are going to be sex scenes that trigger me. I have never been comfortable with my sexuality, I have never ever felt comfortable in […]
When I was about thirteen I got my first computer – and I did what any horny teenage girl did, I used it to meet guys. It was only later that I met my best friend Barrie Hall, (same last name, no relation), he inspired me to start […]