Do You Know Who Built This House?

I did. And I checked the foundation, and it's perfect. No cracks, not a single one, and do you know why? Because as a human being I carry all of my cracks. I've been listening to music for weeks now, which if you know me is fairly abnormal, I mostly keep my music to when … Continue reading Do You Know Who Built This House?

It’s a Process of Learning: Something to Think About For Those Who Think They Can Not…

You Don't Find YOUR Purpose Until YOUR Purpose Finds You. That's the Rule. - Devon J Hall Photo by Tima Miroshnichenko on Pexels.com I want to teach. Stephen Coghlan was the first person to say that I was a teacher, and at the time I wrinkled my nose because I didn't think that was true, … Continue reading It’s a Process of Learning: Something to Think About For Those Who Think They Can Not…

How Trauma Survivors Date Ethically

Signs of trauma are often hard to understand unless you know what you're seeing, or you know 100% of a person's experiences. Here are some things to look for thanks to Help Guide dot Org. Emotional & psychological symptoms: Shock, denial, or disbeliefConfusion, difficulty concentratingAnger, irritability, mood swingsAnxiety and fearGuilt, shame, self-blameWithdrawing from othersFeeling sad … Continue reading How Trauma Survivors Date Ethically

The We Do Not Care Challenge Is The Best Social Media Challenge I Have Ever Found For My Mental Health

Trigger Warning If you're one of those people who think that I SHOULD care what you think about me, because you have better shoes, hair, more money, a cleaner, bigger house, We Do Not Care. We are moving forward the best way that WE Can move forward without your shame, or your judgement, and we … Continue reading The We Do Not Care Challenge Is The Best Social Media Challenge I Have Ever Found For My Mental Health

It’s Easy For Me To Say This…Because I Am In The Middle

Growing up I was always in the middle, it's the single most reason that I didn't fit in. I didn't value what the girls my age valued. I wanted freedom, they wanted to get married and have babies - I figured getting married and having babies would GIVE me freedom, because I figured if I … Continue reading It’s Easy For Me To Say This…Because I Am In The Middle