This post is dedicated to my Budsistas, my friends Jen, Anya, and Wendy, and to all the people who have allowed me to be a mess the last four years as I figure out where I am on my healing journey. Yesterday I got into a conversation about “what about me ism”, and I confessed … More I’m Scared To Move On To The Next Step
I am watching Elementary on Amazon Prime right now. It is without a doubt my current favorite show. I’ve seen every single episode a few times, and yet I am re-watching it the way that I re-watched WandaVision. In this show there is a character called Kitty, who like me was taken, tortured, and raped … More A Little Like Me
I’ve been thinking a lot about my past lately, I can’t seem to help it. It feels often like my past has a vice grip on my right ankle specifically, and refuses to let go, and I know that many of you out there can understand how that feels. There are a lot of people … More I Am Not Your Sacrifice
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, because my statistics have been going up. I am getting tons of brand new views on the website every day, even when I don’t post though I do get considerably less views when there isn’t “brand new” content on my site. Last month my statistics were soaring, … More Self Sabotage Is Totally A Thing I Have Got To Work On
Omg. This was such a hard question during my interview on CJSF today, because there is so much that I want to say, but the first thing that I want to say is that it is absolutely not your fault. Abusers will try and in some cases, succeed in convincing you that it is your … More What Advice Do You Have For Other Survivors?