I will never stop talking about sex

In my last post I talked about the kinds of sex that I used to like, and in some cases still do. In this post I need to talk about why it's important to talk about sex after you've been abused. This isn't an easy topic for most people, but especially those of us who … Continue reading I will never stop talking about sex

I’m not sure it’s getting easier

Every time I deliver a package of love letters to a new place, I have to explain why I write them. It usually starts with..."awhile ago I was gang raped...it's my way of undoing some of the damage." I am not sure the letters are having the intended effect because I don't honestly think I … Continue reading I’m not sure it’s getting easier