Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Season’s Greetings

Okay seriously do you still care about this? Because it contributed to so much drama when I was a kid. “Oh Dear God, no more Merry Christmas? It’s Blessed Yule now?” Bitch please, it was Blessed Yule for close to five thousand years before Christmas just “popped up,” so like, could we not? This idea … More Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Season’s Greetings

Find a Moment of Peace To Hold Onto When The Shit Hits The Fan (A Christmas Reminder)

For a lot of families, the ideas of courtship, dating, marriage, and eventual childbearing experiences, are traditions that everyone is “supposed” to want, but in my case, I have an aunt, and a mother who taught me that they didn’t choose men who would devalue them, but instead chose their independence. Are they happy? That’s … More Find a Moment of Peace To Hold Onto When The Shit Hits The Fan (A Christmas Reminder)