You, and ONLY You, Can Claim Your Greatness, So Do It Now

“My grandmother and my two aunts were an exhibition in resilience and resourcefulness and black womanhood. They rarely talked about the unfairness of the world with the words that I use now with my social justice friends, words like “intersectionality” and “equality”, “oppression”, and “discrimination”. They didn’t discuss those things because they were too busy … More You, and ONLY You, Can Claim Your Greatness, So Do It Now

781 Blog Posts

It seems strange to be celebrating such an odd number of blog posts. I mean it’s not 1000, it’s not 500….it’s Seven Hundred and Eighty-One. The WORLD was such a DIFFERENT place when I was GROWING up. Now I’m GROWN, and I don’t KNOW where I FIT. I’m ONE in EIGHT billion…All of us are … More 781 Blog Posts

Yeah, It Does, Get Better….I’ve Seen It

“Punishments include such things as flashbacks, flooding of unbearable emotions, painful body memories, flooding of memories in which the survivor perpetrated against others, self-harm, and suicide attempts.”― Alison Miller, Healing the Unimaginable: Treating Ritual Abuse and Mind Control For the last month I’ve been listening to the sounds of my internal “you’re a woman it’s time to … More Yeah, It Does, Get Better….I’ve Seen It

Introducing Nova Prime Supreme: Loud Mouth Brown Girl’s Brand New Spirit Faerie, Art By @reinonmyparades

One of the things that I used to love doing as a child, was Faerie hunting. I didn’t call it that as a kid because other people would have thought I was weird, (that ship sailed the day I was born,) but I did call it “going for a walk.” Faerie hunting is something I … More Introducing Nova Prime Supreme: Loud Mouth Brown Girl’s Brand New Spirit Faerie, Art By @reinonmyparades

The World Loves Tearing Down Strong Women And They’re Using Women Like #Lizzo To Do It

It is perfectly acceptable for Lizzo to be considered a once-in-a-lifetime talent. It’s totally allowed to admire her strength, and her wisdom, but don’t you dare defend her behavior, because God damnit, we need something to bitch about. Women have been the world’s number 1 target, especially wealthy women who don’t behave the way that … More The World Loves Tearing Down Strong Women And They’re Using Women Like #Lizzo To Do It