Think About Everything You Want For Your Life And Say No To Everything That Is Not That

I don't know who said this, but my Life Coach Jessika has said it to me a couple of times and the more that I think about it the more that I love the idea of saying "no" to things that I don't want. The other day on Twitter, I was sitting here watching all … Continue reading Think About Everything You Want For Your Life And Say No To Everything That Is Not That

Get Over Your Abandonment Issues, They Serve You Not One Bit

When I was in my mid to late twenties, I had a friend who I spent a great deal of time talking about the world with. He used to tell me that his parents weren't really his parents, they were just people whose custody he was put into at birth. He had his own issues … Continue reading Get Over Your Abandonment Issues, They Serve You Not One Bit

I Shouldn’t Be Surprised, But Survivor’s Connection Was A Huge Disappointment

So...I have a lot of feelings about what happened last night at Loud Mouth Brown Girl's first ever live event and I have to tell you...I am really struck by how completely disappointed I am, and the various layers of disappointment that I am experiencing. First off I want to talk about the layers of … Continue reading I Shouldn’t Be Surprised, But Survivor’s Connection Was A Huge Disappointment

I Probably Won’t Behave

So this week for my #LostLoveDiaries series I talked a lot about the things that I am celebrating, and I haven't really taken time to do that. Even when I wrote my book it wasn't a big deal to anyone in my life - people saw that it was un-edited and figured that it wasn't … Continue reading I Probably Won’t Behave

Please Just Kill Me…

I've been thinking about death a lot lately. Mostly because of the fact that I am presented with stories of death every single day and I have been since the pandemic was announced last March. It's not just deaths from the pandemic, it's cops killing innocent people, it's children killing children, there is death all … Continue reading Please Just Kill Me…