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I am over the expectation that I should expect more.

I am so tired of the women in my life taking care of damaged men. I used to do this habitually, so much so that on several occasions, it could have cost me everything, including my life. As it was, a few years worth of psych bills, some humiliation and I'll be okay. It's not… Continue reading I am over the expectation that I should expect more.

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So weird thing happened…my Ohana wrote me letters

This happened, after Sunday's Surrey Pride event which by the way was awesome, don't believe me? Let me show you please.   The best part hands down was hearing people tell me (or not tell me) that they cried when they opened some of the love letters that "I" wrote. It was also fun not… Continue reading So weird thing happened…my Ohana wrote me letters

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Dear Siddha, I was raped and I need help

Yesterday while sitting on the train from Vancouver to Surrey, I received a letter, it was dropped in my lap in such a forceful way that it was obvious and hard to ignore....I warn you this letter might trigger some people. Dear Siddha,  I was raped. I am just realizing this as I am sitting… Continue reading Dear Siddha, I was raped and I need help

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I can’t believe I have to copy what She Said…

Being forced to forgive your rapist is as comfortable as taking a cheese grater to your cunt. Yes, I said that, I entirely and completely said that, and I own the fuck out of that, I'll stand by that until the day I am dead, for real. Over the last six to eight months or… Continue reading I can’t believe I have to copy what She Said…