Are you a Victim, or are you a Survivor? You cannot be both.

I have a hard time lately calling myself a survivor, I've been using the word without really thinking about it means. Does it mean sitting on my ass blogging every day, or does it mean working toward something? I was victimized by men who abused their friendship with me to cause pain and sorrow. With … Continue reading Are you a Victim, or are you a Survivor? You cannot be both.

Why is no one talking about the brown girls?

I mean this genuinely. For one tiny moment in time, #MuteRKelly had people all over the world talking about what a disgusting disgrace Robert Kelly has always been, and it felt like for a moment that we were being noticed. It felt like we mattered. And all of a sudden, as is the way of … Continue reading Why is no one talking about the brown girls?

New Logo Design!

I decided to pony up, and surprised myself by heading over to Fiverr.Com and buying a logo from Marcus and he did a fucking phenomenal job. He gave me some suggestions to look at and I picked my favorite style and here we have the brand new logo for Loud Mouth Brown Girl and it's perfect. … Continue reading New Logo Design!

Paint yourself tenderly…

One of the things I've refused to do since I started this healing process, is to look at what I could have done differently. If I spend my time worrying about what I could have done differently to prevent myself from being raped, I would drive myself absolutely crazy. There are probably a lot of … Continue reading Paint yourself tenderly…

If I were a happy person…

I have been thinking about what it would take for me to be truly happy. I think I want my person, you know that other human that some people have, who live with them and love them in such a way that their lives are enriched by the presence of another human being? Enriched, not … Continue reading If I were a happy person…